What is homeschooling and how do I get started

What Is Homeschooling?

You may be wondering what is homeschooling. Homeschooling is when parents choose to teach their children at home themselves, instead of sending them to school. Homeschooling is a growing global trend as more and more parents are choosing to homeschool their children each year.

In the USA alone, there are over 2.5 million children currently being homeschooled. While in India, an estimated 1 million children are homeschooled.

Is homeschooling legal?

This depends on the country you live in. Research the answer on your local government’s education website. Homeschooling is legal in many countries including USA, Canada, South Africa, UK and Malaysia. However, it is prohibited in some countries which include Greenland, UAE and Turkey.

Check your local department of education website for more details.

Why do parents choose to homeschool?

There are many reasons why parents choose to homeschool. In my book, Homeschooling 101, I explain in details 10 reasons why people are opting for homeschool. Here are some of the reasons why we homeschool:

  1. To avoid toxic school environments
  2. To play a bigger role in the children’s education
  3. Lack of satisfaction with school system
  4. So they can focus on subjects which are more relevant to the 21st century
  5. Religious reasons
  6. So parents can spend more time with their children

How do I start homeschooling?

What Is Homeschooling

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What can you do for this ummah?

The Issues Facing The Ummah

There is no doubt about the fact that the ummah has a lot of problems. I am not referring only to global issues, but Helping This Ummahwe have many local problems as well. Wherever you travel in the Muslim world, you will discover problems and trials afflicting the Muslims. This is a reality and it won’t go away by us just sitting around complaining about it.

Complaining is easy. Anybody can sit and complain about how bad things are, but what does it actually accomplish? Nothing changes or improves because of a group of angry people complaining on social media or in their private circles. Change requires constructive action, and each of us has something that we can do to make a change in this world.

“You are the best nation produced [as an example] for mankind. You enjoin what is right, forbid what is wrong, and believe in Allah.” (Surah Aal-Imraan 3:110)

What can I do?

I am not asking you to change the world and fix all the problems of the ummah globally. No, focus on what you can fix. Focus on what you have the ability to change and dedicate your spare time to doing so.

You may not be able to resolve the ongoing conflicts in Syria, but you can contribute to resolving crime, racism, and unemployment in South Africa. You may not be able to save Palestine physically but you can join the BDS movement and boycott products that clearly support the oppressors.

The key is to set goals for your life that benefit the ummah. Find some skill that you have that can benefit others and utilize those skills to accomplish goals that benefit others. It may seem small and insignificant in the grander scheme of things, but every little bit of good helps. Think about it, if each of us is working on fixing one problem of the ummah, eventually our combined efforts will resolve hundreds, if not thousands, of such problems.

Make Dua

Another thing we can do instead of complaining is to make dua. Making dua takes the same amount of time and effort as complaining but it is far more productive. Complaining can’t change anything but a sincere dua can. The next time you see something wrong that you can’t fix, turn to the one who can and ask Allah to help the ummah fix all of its problems.

Together we can make a difference. Allah has created us for this purpose. We do not exist to just sit around watching TV and playing video games all day.

As We have all been given skills and talents that can benefit this ummah. So We need to believe that we truly can make a different with Allah’s help and dedicate our time to doing so. I truly believe that the small efforts each of us make in benefiting humanity will all pile up, and in this way we will see a brighter future for the next generation, in shaa Allah.

“O you who believe, if you support Allah, He will support you and plant firmly your feet,” (Surah Muhammad 47:7)

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New Course Launched: Homeschooling For Success

New Course Launched

New Course Launched

Click here to get the course at the launch discount price!

New Course Launched: Homeschooling For Success. Learn everything you need to know to effectively homeschool a Muslim child with our exciting new course. This course is currently available at a HUGE discount to the first 100 parents to join it! Access the discount here.

What You Will Learn

  1. 10 really convincing reasons to consider homeschooling
  2. The various methods of homeschooling
  3. How to teach Islam, Arabic and Islamize other subjects
  4. Time Management for Homeschooling Parents
  5. The answers to 15 FAQs about homeschooling
  6. How to set up your homeschool and run it effectively
  7. Dealing with difficult children effectively and affectionately
  8. How to instill love of learning in children
  9. How to explain your decision to homeschool to others
  10. Methods to help you avoid burnout and stay motivated
  11. Out of the box ideas for homeschooling
  12. How to educate different learning types

All this and more! Over 9+ hours of content!

60% Launch Discount for 100 students only

We are giving away the course at a 60% discount to the first 100 people to sign up! Access this HUGE discount here. Even if you don’t intend to homeschool but have children and want to teach them at home after school, or assist them with homework, you too can benefit from this course.

FAQ about the course

Q: How long is the course?

A: It is currently 9 hours long and growing.

Q: Do I need to be online at any specific times?

A: No, the course is prerecorded. You may access the videos whenever you wish.

Q: Is there a time limit to complete the course?

A: No, it is available to you indefinitely, once you purchase it.

Q: What if the course doesn’t cover a specific topic I wanted to know about homeschooling?

A: No problem, just email me and I will add a video on that topic as soon as I can.

Access the course today at a 60% discount by clicking here

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Surah Maryam: 4 Powerful Family Lessons

Surah Maryam

Surah Maryam

Surah Maryam: 4 Powerful Family Lessons

The 19th chapter of the Quran, Surah Maryam, is one of the most powerful Surahs in the Quran. With a strong focus on the prophets and their families, this Surah is full of amazing lessons for families.

Here are four important lessons from this story:

1. Miracles can happen

The opening story of Surah Maryam is about Prophet Zakaria (AS) and the miraculous birth of his son Yahya (AS). Prophet Zakaria (AS) prayed for a son and was granted one as a miracle at an old age. The lesson here is to never give up, and to never lose hope in Allah’s Mercy.

No matter what family problems you are facing, remain positive and optimistic. Continue to make dua to Allah for assistance. And never lose hope. Miracles happen all the time, we just need to stay strong.

2.Respect Your Elders Even When disagreeing

The third story of Surah Maryam focuses on Prophet Ibrahim (AS) and the Dawah he did to his father Azar. Prophet Ibrahim’s (AS) father was an idol maker. So he called him to Tawheed.

The main point to note in this passage is that no matter how astray his father was, Prophet Ibrahim (AS) continued to address him in the most respectful manner.

Too often, young Muslims speak to their elders very disrespectfully when trying to correct them. In doing so, they cause more harm than good. Remain respectful no matter what, as that is what Islam teaches.

3. Your family are a gift

In multiple places in Surah Maryam, Allah mentions a family member as a gift to another, even using the word ‘wahaba’ which means to gift. Prophet Musa (AS) was gifted with a brother Prophet Harun (AS). Prophet Ibrahim (AS) was gifted his sons and grandson. Maryam was gifted with Prophet Eesa (AS).

The lesson for us all here is that righteous family are a gift. Cherish them and thank Allah for them. Avoid conflict, and patch things up when you slip up. Do not allow the devil to cause problems between you and your family.

4. Righteousness isn’t guaranteed

After mentioning all of these prophets, Allah says, “And after them, there came a generation who abandoned prayers and followed their desires. So soon they will be thrown into Hellfire,” (Surah Maryam 19:59)

This verse should teach us a very important lesson. Because you are a good Muslim and striving to raise your children properly, you may think they will also become righteous. However, their righteousness (and the righteousness of future generations) is not guaranteed.

Your job is simply to show them the right way, teach them and to pray for them. Whether they choose the right way as adults or not is not something you control. This is the hardest lesson for many of us to swallow, and pray to Allah not to test us with offspring that go astray.

However, it is crucial to know this so that we can prepare ourselves to deal with the tests of life.

These are four important lessons related to family taken from Surah Maryam.

For more Tafseer lessons, check out our eBook: Themes of the Quran.

Themes of the Quran

Posted by Ismail Kamdar in Inner Peace

How To Handle Stress At Work – 7 Practical Steps

How to handle stress at work

So you want to know how to handle stress at work? I get it. Work is one of the primary causes of stress in life, especially if you have to deal with difficult people. How to handle stress at work

Stress at work comes in all different forms and shapes. Some of it is actually good stress like deadlines and potential promotions. These motivate us to work harder and actually get things done.

Then there are the crises. An angry customer. A broken machine. The grumpy boss. An unanticipated blunder.

Too many of us go into panic mode when dealing with these issues. But there are many ways to deal with them for productively. Try these 7 things instead:

1. Be Prepared

If you expect your work-life to ever be 100% stress-free, then you are setting yourself up for disappointed. Stresses are a part of life, and especially a part of work. After all, doesn’t the word ‘work’ indicating doing something stressful?

The first thing you can do to leverage work stress is to be prepared for it. Make mental notes of things that can possibly go wrong. Now make mental notes of how you will deal with each situation should they ever arise. This way, you will prepared and ready when such situations occur.

2. Focus on your priorities

When facing a work crisis, it is very easy to get lost in the drama and forget priorities. The key here is to remain focused on what matters: your priorities. Forbes Magazine also recommends prioritizing as a way of dealing with work stress.

Simply put, no matter what the crisis is: figure out your priorities for the day focus on getting those done.

3. Practice Relaxation Techniques

Muslim Matters has a really awesome article on Sunnah relaxation techniques. Adopt the ones that work best for you and utilize them during such stressful situations. Even simple steps like washing your face, taking a walk (my favorite) or breathing exercises will go a long way in helping you stay calm under pressure. Research the topic further and find what works for you. (Just make sure to keep it halal, so no smoking!)

4. Work on long term deadlines in advance

One easily avoidable cause of stress are looming deadlines. This usually happens when we procrastinate and leave work until a few days/hours/minutes before the deadline. An easy way to overcome this is to simply start working on a project as soon as you receive it, and don’t wait for the deadline.

In my time management eBook, Getting The Barakah, I explain an easy method to do this. I call it chunking. Basically, you just break the project up into easily done daily tasks and work on one such task a day until the entire project is done. In this way, you get things done ahead of the deadline with minimal  stress. Check out my eBook Getting The Barakah for more details.

5. Deal with a crisis one step at a time

A simple answer to the question: How to handle stress at work? One step at a time!

The crisis is in front of you, you have choice: stress about it or roll up your sleeves and get to work. The productive option is obviously. Figure out what needs to be done to avert the crisis and start working on it, one step at a time. Don’t stress about the entire solution, just focus on the step at hand until it is done. Then move on to the next one.

In this way, step by step you will solve the problem and avert the crisis.

6. Remind yourself that it will pass

A new day, a new work crisis. Nothing lasts forever, and every work crisis will pass. Remind yourself of this whenever you feel overwhelmed. Whatever we are dealing with today will pass if we stay focused on the solution. So there is no need to panic. And no benefit in losing our minds.

Remind yourself about this every time you face a work crisis, and you will be able to tackle it with a clearer mind.

7. Learn from the experience

In my Self-Confidence eBook Best Of Creation, I dedicate an entire chapter to the importance of learning from one’s mistakes. Mistakes and crises are important work experience. How you deal with them will reflect on your resume.

When people say they are looking to hire someone with experience, this includes having experienced work stress and crises and dealt with them appropriately. At the end of the day, how you deal with crises shape the kind of worker you are. These are the experiences that make you valuable, so embrace the challenge and tackle it with a positive mindset and the humility needed to learn!

And that is how to handle stress at work!

Shaykh Ismail Kamdar is the author of multiple eBooks and the founder of Islamic Self Help. Check out our blog for more articles by him.

Posted by Ismail Kamdar in Stress Management